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Getting Dressed Isn't Content. It's a Ritual: Stylist Aida Baez is challenging fashion's copy-and-paste culture.

  • Writer: Camille Roe S.
    Camille Roe S.
  • 1 day ago
  • 4 min read

The New York-based model and stylist isn't interested in chasing trends. Instead, she's building a world where clothes tell stories, getting dressed becomes a daily ritual, and personal style matters more than the algorithm.


Fashion has never moved faster. Every week there's a new "core," another aesthetic to replicate and another celebrity wardrobe dissected into shopping links before most people have even had their morning coffee. Trends are no longer seasonal; they're hourly. Social media has transformed getting dressed into an endless cycle of inspiration that often leaves little room for individuality.


But for New York-based model, stylist and creative director Aida Baez, fashion was never supposed to work that way.

"It's become so easy to see someone wear something online and immediately think it'll look good on us," she tells me. "But I think getting dressed is a ritual."

That single sentence quietly reframes the entire conversation around style. For Aida, clothing isn't simply about looking fashionable. It's about memory, identity and intention. It's a daily act of deciding who you want to be before you step outside. And that's exactly what she believes we've started to lose.



Fashion Isn't Meant to Be Copy and Paste

After graduating, Aida spent several years moving between Australia, Madrid and New York, working across modelling, styling, creative direction and marketing while trying to figure out where she wanted to build her career. Styling quickly became the work that fulfilled her most. Not because of luxury fashion houses or runway collections, but because of the hunt. Rather than pulling garments from lookbooks or PR showrooms, Aida found herself spending hours wandering through flea markets, vintage stores and estate sales, searching for pieces that already had a life before they reached her clients.

"I love the journey," she says. "When I find that beautiful piece, it's like something unlocks."

Instead of seeing clothes as products, she imagines the person they'll eventually belong to. A blazer isn't simply a blazer. It's something she can already picture being worn on someone's first date, a gallery opening or an afternoon spent wandering through Paris. That emotional connection eventually became the foundation of her own creative project, Peti-ta!, a curated vintage platform built around storytelling rather than consumption. Because for Aida, every garment deserves a history.


The Story Matters More Than the Label

Ask Aida why she prefers vintage over buying new, and her answer has very little to do with sustainability or exclusivity. It's about meaning. When you know a piece belonged to someone's grandmother, travelled across countries or was discovered inside a forgotten antique market in Milan, it carries something impossible to manufacture. "Every piece has a story," she explains.


That story changes the way we wear it. There's confidence in knowing your clothes weren't produced for millions of identical wardrobes. There's intimacy in wearing something that existed long before it reached yours. In an industry increasingly driven by instant gratification, Aida believes we've overlooked the emotional relationship we have with what we wear. Fashion, she argues, becomes infinitely more playful when clothes feel personal instead of disposable.


Dressing Like Yourself Instead of the Internet

The rise of influencer culture has democratised fashion in remarkable ways. Style inspiration is no longer reserved for glossy magazines or celebrity stylists. Anyone with a phone can influence how millions of people get dressed. But accessibility has also created a different problem. Everyone is beginning to look the same.

"I don't want women to feel like they have to look like Kim Kardashian," Aida says. "I want them to feel like themselves."

It's a subtle distinction, but one that sits at the centre of everything she creates. Rather than asking clients to recreate someone else's wardrobe, she encourages them to discover different versions of themselves through clothing. One day might feel feminine. The next playful. Another nostalgic. Getting dressed becomes less about fitting into an aesthetic and more about exploring your own identity.


The Algorithm Rewards Authenticity More Than Trends

Ironically, the same philosophy has shaped the way Aida approaches content creation. Like most creatives, she's experimented with following trends, chasing algorithms and questioning whether her ideas were "fashion enough." The result? Those posts almost always underperformed.


"The posts that are most me; the ones that are strongest to the vision, they always engage the best," she says. "The ones where I'm trying to follow the algorithm or the trend do the worst."

For creators constantly balancing originality with performance metrics, it's an observation that feels increasingly relevant. The internet often tells us success comes from imitation. Aida's experience suggests the opposite. The clearer your creative identity becomes, the easier it is for the right audience to find you.


Building a World Before Building a Business

Perhaps what's most refreshing about Aida's approach is that she isn't rushing growth. While many emerging brands focus on scaling as quickly as possible, she's intentionally moving slower. Peti-ta has already expanded into intimate pop-up experiences, collaborations with artisans, short films and creative projects that blur the line between fashion, storytelling and art.

Her first designs; including a small eyewear collection, are arriving gradually. But the priority isn't launching more products. It's protecting the philosophy behind them.

"I don't want to succumb to the pressure to grow fast without having a really strong ethos at its core," she says.

That patience has unexpectedly attracted exactly the kind of community she hoped to build. When Aida recently invited models to participate in a shoot, many arrived offering far more than their faces. Some wanted to help with production. Others offered financial expertise. Creative collaborators volunteered simply because they believed in the vision.

"I must be doing something right," she laughs, "if I'm attracting people who just want to build."

It's proof that the strongest brands aren't always built through aggressive marketing.

Sometimes they're built by giving people something meaningful to believe in.


Fashion as a Daily Ritual

In many ways, Aida's philosophy feels almost radical, not because it's new, but rather because it's asking us to slow down. To stop asking what everyone else is wearing. To stop buying clothes simply because an algorithm placed them in front of us.


And instead, to ask a much simpler question: Who do I want to be today? Because maybe getting dressed was never supposed to be another trend cycle. Maybe it was always meant to be a ritual.

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